Every our relationship expert, Sarah Abell, answers readers’ questions on emotional issues week.
7:00AM GMT 15 Mar 2011
In the past my companion, Sue, said she had dropped in love off saying, “I don’t feel the same way, you’re my best friend, I’m straight” with me and I brushed her. She was at enough time and is still in a committed relationship with kiddies. We always been close friends within the full years with periods where she would take away from our relationship however we’d make contact with being ok once more, at the very least, we thought we did.
Sue now informs me she’s got held it’s place in love beside me the time that is entire has struggled whenever I’ve held it’s place in relationships, that have been with guys. Fast-forward to now and I also find myself within my very first relationship with a lady also it is actually with Sue’s really closest friend of 20 years. We don’t understand why it just happened nonetheless it did and it also’s good.
She had been waiting I was meant to be with her for me to have the “ah ha” moment and realise.
Plus the only explanation she thought through the years because I would never want to be with a girl that we weren’t together was. She blames me personally for the form her relationship has been around when it comes to previous many years and she feels that I’ve led her on for the whole time.
Sue is extremely aggravated I do not know how to navigate the situation with me and. She wishes distance, that we have but i will be extremely annoyed too at having lost her relationship. She informs me she’s working on her behalf relationship and family members now and if it gets better, we are able to be buddies as time goes on. 继续阅读“My closest friend is in deep love with me personally. Therefore now Sue is extremely hurt and seems betrayed.”